You can't decide what studies are most suitable for you? Advice for graduates.
Most young people declare that after graduating from high school are selected for study. However, only few people are able to answer clearly the question of what direction they want to study.
Many high school students in third grade do not know what high school subjects would you like to sit and what to do in life. You cannot reasonably make this important decision. It's often chosen based on fashion trends, pressures from the environment, or the case. But suffice to reflect on his character, interests, and predispositions to learn. What to do if we do not know completely what we are interested in? When not distinguish anything on any subject? The answer is simple, but very difficult to achieve. Know yourself.
Many believe that it is impossible to completely do so. Eugeniusz Debski (author of the novel with science fiction and fantasy) in one of his books he wrote: "It's weird - a man rummaging in a lifelong, already seemed that I was world champion in the knowledge of its interior, but did not. Something was still was to discover. „
How to choose a collegue? The choice of college will help you to this article.
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In fact, it's hard to discover the truth about him. But it should be a little look inside you to find out what we want from life. Selection of study determines our life path. The best way for such an analysis is to draw cards and write on it what we like, and what is not, our strengths and weaknesses, hobbies, our perception of future work ... criteria may be many, and the more they will be, the easier for us to read his own image this paper. Thanks to my own eyes see what we have predispositions, and what is not fit completely, and this will help us choose. This is a good, recommended by psychologists, as for the undecided.
However, if the "visualization" does not help, you can try another way - talk about themselves with others. Talk with friends and family. This can also be difficult to achieve, as close to people often do not know how to talk to each other. And I do not mind talking about work or to buy a new car. I think about conversations where people listen to each other and express their true emotions. Where both parties feel that they have found the contact and understanding. This is necessary if one wants to hear the opinion of him.
Keep in mind that often it can be unflattering. Anton Chekhov always stressed in his work the problem of interpersonal communication. Already in the late nineteenth century, remarked that people, even though they communicate the same language, it does not completely understand their needs. What would say if he saw humanity in the era of television and the Internet? Yes, increasingly isolating ourselves from others. However, when resistance and divests itself will open to criticism, will help us better understand ourselves. You should gain some distance from your own people, which is a very difficult task. It's too often idealized, too easy to absolve the various doings. We present a false picture of her, which prevents the various important election because we have no idea what we want.
There are some good ways to communicate:
- don't rate it, don't generalize, don't interpret,
- Let's take care of the simplicity and clarity of language, uses a similar, understandable language for the caller,
- Avoid "chatter", obey the principle of "minimum of words - a maximum of content,
- Avoid anything that might discourage the caller or call him a sense of threat such as listening
in silence with "stony face, avoiding eye contact, nervous looking at the clock, glancing around
round, closed questioning - which can only be answered "yes" or "no."
Once will be announced at least a little of his own person and we'll find out in what direction we want to go, we take advantage of the knowledge of the mine, which is the Internet and view offers at various colleges. We must look at the objects in a given direction, mode of study to decide how we answer ... The possibilities are many. It is also going to open days of the institution. You can find many interesting from students interested in our direction. They are always ready to help and good advice. It should, however skilfully consider all pros and cons, because there is nothing worse than sitting in a boring lecture, know that they are not here to look for ...
And above all, the choice of study we addressed the old question of how the world: to have or be? The answer to this question determines our choice of items and leaving as the direction of further education. Do you go to college, which we have little interest, but provide gainful employment in the future, whether you choose the direction in which we will be excited, but a chance to earn big is small? At the beginning we get rid of such a narrow thinking: boring studying = good work and interesting science = no work. If a man has an idea to life, is confident of its capabilities and does what he likes, I am deeply convinced that can be found satisfying work in all studies. We only need (or up!) Be in harmony with each other and to constantly strive for.
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